Jealous or Envy

What if I would ask you what the different of these two similar words is ?   
And..  Do you have any answer ?       Let me explain that with some basic examples.

I was in a party one of in last weekends, in which were joined many models.  The organizer was a good friend of me that we know eachother till 5 years.  He is one of  most modest person in my network that might have not been met before.  He is single child and didn't have any financial problem in his life , the reason was that the parents were really in good business positions in which he had been became all what he wanted just in that moment.  Well he was the lucky guy between us ;)

Anyway, he want to create a new business channel and get some researchs by facilities of possibilities by our  friends as "business network". 

... So from that moment on, I used my special skill  "observe and analyse"  what I saw.  This is my profession side ,in which it never doesn't failed me.  Some of part that group was really happy about his plans and were contributed with their ideas. But the other part was extremely jealous and was completely  quiet or made negative opinions so that he was confused and lost his courage for a moment. How bad is that ?!?! It could be have only one titel for that situation, and it means ; this kind of people doesn't want to see the happiness of other people ; they are JEALOUS ...

And jealous persons will be seperated on 2 ways ;

1)  harmless
2)  harmfull

The harmless group  stay as "neutral"  (but in truth they are not) , and try to be calm  (normally they have some internal conflicts all the time ; in other words they are actually always restless types)

But  although other group , they don't damage anybody.. They are talking just with theirselves..

So it means they damage themselves and give all negative energy just back on their being.

In a expression said : Barking dogs seldom bites...

But the second group is the most dangerous ones.  They are not just only jeolous,  they are like a fox that plans something harmfull always at same time.  It means ; once thief, always a thief ... They won't gonna be changed. You should know just  that you can comb out like these people from your life. They are dislodgeble , really.. believe me; you can do it !

We will be never  have the same conditions, skills, personalities, circles.. The ones will be have "the most better" things in life  (these theme is open for arguments of course) then we have or had.

Instead of consuming ourselves  with "why.. why not.." questions, it would be better to try to have more usefull things in life. Or trying being to better person then we are still..

What was about the other group that were happy about his plans and was supporting him? They were just asking themselves how he was lucky and they are not, and also " ..what if?" question.  I think they are faced just with their possibilities and pasts, and are querying with "..if only?!" situation. So as we see these kind of people can be happy with others luck and can transfer their ideas to the lucky people.  Because they are just envying the situation not the person..  It may seems a little different between that two verbs , but we are talking about two distinct meanings.

And also, let me ask you one quesiton :

" Why should we give our energy for a negative status / verb and  behave us like  "bad people" instead of being just "nice" and allow to stream  the positive energy around ?? "

 

Do you have any reason for it ?  ... Then ok, keep going on, just be bad!

..but don't complain never when you should have nobody around you in future ....


xoxo
ö.N